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R Meadow's avatar

I just hit my 8th month too. Wasn't sure what to expect, didn't really like or understand it at first. And then similar to what you described it changed around month two by just showing up and having fun with it.

Congrats! ~ Rosie

Chris B. Writes's avatar

Thanks so much Rosie!

Jess, The Creator's avatar

Happy 8 months on substack, Chris!!! I’m so happy we connected here on substack!

Chris B. Writes's avatar

Jess my sister from another mister!! So blessed we are friends.

Jess, The Creator's avatar

Me too!!! 🫶🏼🙌🏼🙏😌

Chris B. Writes's avatar

🙌🙌💪💪

Erin Gregory Creative's avatar

My start was very much in this same vein, as you know 😉 I’m so glad we connected!

Chris B. Writes's avatar

Yessss so grateful to become friends with you! Otherwise I never would have been introduced to mikey 6 strings!! ;)

Erin Gregory Creative's avatar

Hah he is a gem

Lynn J. Broderick's avatar

Love this, Chris. Happy for your whim. Without that, I wouldn’t have the privilege of knowing you.

Chris B. Writes's avatar

Awww thanks so much Lynn!

Eladio Matos's avatar

I've been enjoying watching your journey, my friend.

Chris B. Writes's avatar

Thanks so much Eladio! Thanks for being so active in our community!!

Jess's avatar

Congrats on the milestone Chris glad I bumped into you here and this wonderful community you are building ❤️

Chris B. Writes's avatar

Thanks so much Jess! You are so supportive and a huge part of our community!

Christopher Carazas's avatar

There’s something quietly beautiful about the things we almost don’t do.

The message almost not sent. The story almost kept to ourselves. The door almost left closed because we convinced ourselves nobody would be on the other side.

And then we press send.

That’s the strange magic of writing, isn’t it? You think you’re just putting words into the world, but really you’re building a small bridge and hoping someone, somewhere, recognizes the crossing.

What I love about this is the reminder that connection rarely arrives with a strategic plan, a quarterly roadmap, and a branded onboarding sequence, because apparently humans still insist on becoming meaningful to each other in the least efficient ways possible.

Sometimes it begins with a whim. A sentence. A memory. A moment of honesty that escapes before fear can tackle it at the door.

And somehow, that becomes a light for someone else.

I’m really glad you pressed send.

Chris B. Writes's avatar

Thanks so much Chris! I’m glad we’ve connected.

Christopher Carazas's avatar

Me too!!

Patti Wohlin's avatar

I am so glad to find your Substack Chris! You are the real heart of health care, the advocate and loved one of a precious person who deserves and needs dignity and individualized care. I was blessed to spend a decade working as a Provider (Physician Assistant) in long-term care in both group homes and sub-acute pediatrics where I met many special children and a few families like you and your family, Chris. They taught me more about life and compassion that any course or training ever could. The children I met taught me most of all, that words are not needed to feel the caring touch and presence of those who pay attention with kindness. I feel blessed to be here in your community. 💗

Chris B. Writes's avatar

Oh Patti thank you so much for your kind words and for caring for families like ours.

John Rinaldo's avatar

🙏🤗✌️

Chris B. Writes's avatar

Thank you my friend

Let’s Get UnStuck's avatar

Love this so much Chris! Your page lifts us up. So grateful we met and became friends 🫶🏻

Chris B. Writes's avatar

Thank you Traci!

Florence Acosta's avatar

Congratulations on crossing the 1500 Subscribers line! But most importantly for building this beautiful community through writing and being so open and vulnerable about your caregiving and parenting journey.🩷

Chris B. Writes's avatar

Appreciate you Florence thank you!

small wounds's avatar

This is lovely, congrats 💜

Chris B. Writes's avatar

Thanks so much

HVR - James's avatar

I relate to the outlet. I get it.

Laura Lynch's avatar

This is great! I was surprised by how much I felt the same once I got on Substack. I have experienced an incredibly encouraging and supportive group of people! Love your posts! :D

Chris B. Writes's avatar

Thanks so much Laura, it’s an incredible community

Laura Lynch's avatar

🤗

Laura Montgomery's avatar

Encouraging! Thank you!

Chris B. Writes's avatar

Thanks Laura!

Tabitha Dial | Creating Refuge's avatar

Thank you for all of this.

The "How I started building" section is a fine collection of guidance to live by.

Look what's happened in less than a year! Wonderful.

This might be of interest to our poetry friends. Thanks:

https://tabithadial.substack.com/p/3-lessons-learned-from-national-poetry?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=17knr